Want to dip your toes in the lusty world of cybersex? Here’s a few tips to keep in mind:
* Don’t just hit a chat room and put the hard word on people. Any possible encounter will be better if you join in the conversation and simply talk with a potential partner before you take things further.
* Have an idea about how you’re presenting yourself. If you’ve got an online persona, have it secure in your head so you don’t slip up and ruin the fantasy halfway through.
* Be prepared to suspend disbelief. Your partner may well be Comic Book Guy from the Simpsons, but if you want to just enjoy the moment, throw your cynicism out the window.
* Try and make any encounter descriptive but realistic. Remember it’s a cliché to be wearing suspenders and a corset during cybersex.
* Make sure you don’t reveal any identifying information about yourself during your encounter – you don’t want to pick up a stalker.
This is an excerpt from The Ins And Outs Of Cybersex, a new feature article at For The Girls. Aside from advice on how to get the best out of cybersex, the article looks at why people find it appealing, as well as the ethical issues. Is cybersex cheating? Find out in the members area at FTG!
